The Uncomfortable Truth About Casual Sex Advice Columns The recent advice column from Slate's "How to Do It" series highlighted a common phenomenon: well intentioned friends and family members trying to advise their loved ones on matters of sex and relationships.
Concerned Sister was worried about her younger sister Alyssa's behavior with a new partner, Nick, but the columnist's advice to respect autonomy and allow young adults to make their own mistakes glossed over the complexities of casual sex and power dynamics at play.
A contrasting letter from Can't Quite Get There offers insight into the challenges faced by couples in long term relationships.