The Slippery Slope of Assumed Consent in Intimate Relationships When one partner assumes consent without seeking it, they risk reinforcing existing power imbalances and potentially creating a culture of coerced enthusiasm.
This can be particularly problematic when exploring new kinks or desires, as it may imply that the other person's willingness to engage is an obligation rather than a genuine expression of mutual interest.
A recent advice column highlighted this issue in a marriage where one partner was hesitant to explore new kinks but seemed to expect his wife to accommodate him.